Men, unlike women, are more aroused by physical contact with a woman, by the physical components. A woman's appearance is very important to them. Although the emotional components and the presence of a spiritual connection are important for women, they often turn a blind eye to physical imperfections. It is important for her to be sure that she is loved and that her partner will not abandon her after sexual intercourse. The very excitement, the desire for sex, is part of the strongest instinct - the procreation instinct.
Everything is transparent here, if a woman gets pregnant she will need the help of a man while she raises the child. And at this moment a man can fertilize an countless number of women. It sounds cynical, but that's natureinstinctprocreation of a man's lineage: leaving behind as many healthy descendants as possible. Therefore, a man's arousal has a simpler mechanism.
How does a man feel arousal?
No wonder they say that a man cannot reason sensibly when there is a woman nearby who excites him. He actually starts to think worse at this point.Indicators of sexual arousalfor men they are:
- Erection. Perhaps the most striking and obvious manifestation. But an erection doesn't just occur when you're aroused: it can simply be a full bladder or a morning wood;
- Rapid pulse, thanks to it, breathing also becomes more frequent;
- Dilated pupils, the look itself becomes glassy;
- To changehabitualtimbrevoices, he becomes hoarse and breathless;
- Skin redness, a strong blush may appear on the face;
Arousal may increase more and more if sexual intercourse does not occur immediately. But you should not prolong this game, otherwise the excitement will begin to subside or premature ejaculation will occur.
What exactly turns a man on?
It seems that you just need to undress and the man is ready. But not everything is so simple and true emotion is the result of a combination ofmany factors. One of them, of course, is that a man must find a woman attractive.
He determines this on some animal level.He is attracted totheir appearance, voice timbre, smell, facial expressions, plasticity of movements. But beyond that, certain actions, a woman's body, and even the colors of her clothes can drive him into a frenzy.
Actions that excite
There are actions on the part of a woman that can stimulate an existing passion or even generate a new one:
- A woman's willingness to surrenderalways and everywhere, but only for a certain man. The realization that the partner is calm and that such a treasure is only in her hands fuels the man's desire.
- Spontaneous caresses, women's initiative. If she suddenly begins to caress him herself, even in a place that is not entirely suitable for this, for example, in an elevator, the man may completely lose his mind.
- Vision. A man can really be turned on by a woman's inviting look, which says: "Come to me, try to win me over, maybe I won't mind. "
- Keep it new. Men are generally excited about everything new. A new place for possible sex, a new style of clothing for your partner, your new perfume, your hairstyle.
- Stimulation of erogenous zones. Men have fewer of them than women, but they still exist. In addition to intimate places, these are most often the back of the head, ear and abdomen.
- Wear sexy clothes. Whatever they say, men are turned on by certain clothes, even if they aren't appropriate everywhere. These are mainly tight-fitting clothes made of thin fabric or leather, short minis and a deep neckline.
- Way of walking, in which the hips sway and the chest sways, will certainly excite a man.
- Beautiful plasticdancegirls with a beautiful figure. Especially if she slowly undresses while doing it.
Female body and arousal
First of all, a man realizesgeneral image, as the totality of all physical data. And if the image catches his attention, he looks at it and notices the details. Looking at certain parts of the body has a particularly stimulating effect.
Most of the time thisass and breasts. Of course, there are aesthetes who are excited about ankles or ears, but this is a characteristic. What turns you on the most is very individual, some may be more turned on by the breasts, and others by the buttocks. Many people are still turned on by their belly, and not their abdomen, but a small, soft belly.
Sexual positions
Preference in poses depends ontemperamentin bed and how expensive the partner is.
- Missionary Position. If this is sex between people who really miss each other, then the man will probably be more turned on by this position. This way he will be able to caress her breasts, caress her hair and face and kiss the woman on the lips.
- Like a dogordoggy style. There is something animalistic about this position and this moment excites the man during sex.
- Girl on top, both facing the partner and vice versa. At the time of sexual intercourse, the woman controls everything: the depth of insertion, the rhythm and when to stop, everything depends on her, that's what makes this position special. And the vision that opens before a man will not leave him indifferent.
- Near the wall. There is something cinematic about this pose. Men love this position for its entertainment value, although on its own it is not very comfortable and the introduction is not maximum.
What is also especially important is that a man loves to see his partner during sex, which is why he prefers all positions in which the details of what is happening are as visible as possible. And the light must be on and the partner must be completely undressed.
What colors can turn a man on?
A naked body excites you during sex. But before that, the man is interested in undressing a woman, first to her panties and then completely. It is also importantWhich colorShe will use toiletries and underwear.
When choosing underwear and clothes, women should know what turns men on mostred,blackANDpurplecolors of underwear and clothes. These colors promise men experience and sensuality in bed. AwhiteANDbeigethe colors excite those who like very young and inexperienced girls.
Why men are turned on by women's breasts
It's no secret that lush and high breasts please almost every man. But if you think about it, what's so special about it, why, for example, doesn't another part of the body care? From the point of viewbiology- this is the biggest mystery, in other mammals the breasts enlarge exclusively before feeding, and they do not attract males, only puppies. And in sexually mature human females it always increases and men react to it with enthusiasm.
Reasonsthere may be several:
- In women, the nipples and the breasts themselves are the strongesterogenous zone, and men want to arouse women by caressing their breasts.
- It is customary for people to hide their breasts, and the forbidden fruit is sweet.
- Only people have sex in front of each other.
- Breasts are whatdistinguishman and woman and what is associated with feminine heat.
- And also, most likely, the point here isinstinctprocreation. The main purpose of breasts is to feed babies. And a woman's big breasts subconsciously tell her that she will feed her children well. But to be honest, in reality this is not always the case, the amount of milk does not depend on the size of the breast. This is what subconsciously attracts men. After all, the very desire to copulate is the desire to continue the race, to leave descendants.